Thank you

When I started this blog over two months ago, it served as an outlet to get all of my thoughts and feelings organized. It allowed me to begin my healing process. I still have a long way to go, but along the way I’ve discovered a lot about myself and how I want to live my life.

What I didn’t realize was the impact my writings would have on others. The countless text messages, phone calls, instant messages and personal conversations letting me know how I’ve changed the way people go about living their daily lives has left me at a loss for words and humbled beyond recognition.

I draw strength from all of you, a strength that allows me to keep climbing. And for that, I thank you.

To the mother who turned me into the man I am today. Thank you.

To the person who I seek out weekly for spiritual guidance, your words are powerful, and I’m learning that through pain and suffering, there is life.

To a best friend who drags me out of my house on a daily basis even when I’m at my lowest. Thank you.

To the phenomenal friends and family who send me words of encouragement and lend a helping hand. Thank you.

To the single fathers who have also lost their wives to cancer, thank you for making me realize I’m not alone.

To the man who I don’t know, I’m humbled that my words are helping you deal with the loss of your wife of 37 years. Thank you.

To the husbands, wives, fathers and mothers, it brings me great joy to know that you’re personally changing your perspectives on life through my journey. Thank you.

To the brother who took time out of his schedule to visit and spend time with the kids and me. Thank you.

To the amazing woman who feels like she’s not okay with the right words, your words were perfect and delivered at the right time. Thank you.

To the silent followers of my journey, thank you for taking an interest in my life.

Finally, to the wife who I lost too soon, you taught me to love without condition and to live every day in the now. I’m blessed to have been graced by your presence.

The fog is beginning to lift, I’m slowly putting the pieces together to create something amazing. When the time is right, I hope you’ll join me to help make a difference in the lives of families dealing with cancer.